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Joined: Sun Mar 22nd, 2009
Location: Forests, Fields, Lakes And Mountains, Oregon USA
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 Posted: Mon Oct 19th, 2009 10:18 am
Thank you!   :kiss:

I believe in fairy tales, too, happily ever after and all that.  And I know the one who is a vibrational match to the happy person I truly am will show up whenever I'm at my greatest allowing.

The funny thing is, there's a new guy chasing me who is just a darling.  In fact, that's why I'm up so late over here, just got off the phone with him.  From a purely objective standpoint, he's more of a match.  But since when is the heart objective? ::devil

The greatest expansion I'm feeling is that I'm on a songwriting rampage.  New songs are coming to me, and I'm finishing songs that have been in a state of limbo for months and even years.  I always ask the Universe to inspire my songwriting, and it's knocking itself out to distract me from this recent breakup.   ::hearts


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 Posted: Sun Jan 16th, 2011 09:09 pm
Hey there,

Long time no...er...write.

I Googled "want ex back Abraham Hicks" and found, among other hits, this forum.  Why should I be surprised?  This forum's relevance to my life and my study of Abe-Hicks is the reason I joined in the first place!

I read through all your wonderful posts.  I can identify with many of them.  But what about this: 

My ex left me 7 years ago.  (He's in Toronto, I'm in New York. It was a long-distance relationship.  The nature of our time together was, we'd talk every night on the phone and see each other about every 6 weeks or so on average.)

For three years after he left there was no contact.  One day, I was cleaning out a bookshelf and found programs of shows we'd gone to, and a birthday card he'd given to me.  I sat on the floor and cried and cried. 

The very next day, I went online and, since I hadn't checked to see if there was any activity on Yahoo Messenger in, probably, a year, I signed on.  I couldn't believe my eyes.  Several weeks before, he requested I add him to my Friend list.

During the four years since that day, there have been sporadic emails.  Some, from him, have been weirdly platonic.  (We were as sexually passionate as I think any couple can be; one thing we were never, was platonic.)

But the more recent ones, in the past year or so, have been hotter.  He has suggested that when his favorite comedian comes to New York, he come down from Toronto and we go to the show together.  (I didn't respond to this.) 

My birthday came last month, and one night, there was a package waiting at my door.  He'd spent nearly $300 on a Kindle, Amazon gift card and accessories. 

Yet we haven't yet spoken in the entire 7 years.  Part of me suspects that he's with someone else, but another part of me wonders if he's just testing the waters, and initiating the immediacy of phone contact would be a little too committal at this point. 

Once I got over the shock of his leaving, I tried dating on and off for a couple of years.  I just couldn't bring myself to keep doing it because I couldn't stop thinking of my ex.  It honestly was just easier to be alone.

So for four years, I've dated no one.  What I have done is discover Abe-Hicks (about two years ago) and put their teachings to work in my life.  That's been great.  I found some contentment in aligning with Source energy.  My Buddhist practice and Abe's teachings have brought about more joy and growth than, probably, all the years I've lived before.

With that said, yes, yes, yes, I want him back. I don't want an ambivalent man, or a duplicitous man, I want the man I had before, but I want him to have grown.  I want him to want me as much as I want him.  Is that so much to ask?  I refuse to believe the answer's "yes."  I can be, do or have anything.  Or anyone.

Any comments or guidance?




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 Posted: Sun Jan 16th, 2011 10:04 pm


This forum will no longer be used for New Threads or replies.  As a result, this thread is now closed and can continue at:


Please bookmark it. :)  It is operational now with substantial improvements, new features and more additions than can be covered in this announcement. 

All of original Abe Forum content has been imported to its new home as of August 20th at 6AM EST.  Any content after that date has not been imported, and so further postings need to be made just on the new site and not to this one any longer.

Eventually, all threads will be closed here, I am starting that task now.  Please watch for announcements on the top thread on the new forum,
http://www.abeforum.com under the Abraham Teachings and you.


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