Every child and person who has ever been born into abusive family's, when choosing which family to be born into, did these people pick and choose and say "I would like to be in as much contrast as possible so I can learn, grow, and shoot rockets of desire and to have fun in this journey?
I know that vibrations attract one another, so you attracted your parents and vica versa, but when you're non-physical pure positive energy and can see the world from a non-biased point of view, wouldn't it make sense that you can tell before coming into physical, what kind of contrast you would meet? and therefore you had a choice, and that would mean that every child that's swimming in deep contrast now deliberately chose this for themselves before they came?
Yes. I came and swamp in deep contrast and got a great deal on expansion and *before* I came into physical, I knew and chose it. And now I have re-remembered thanks to Abraham.
And the end of knowing, there is nothing but deep appreciation for all the contrast and a greater appreciation for the freedom involved. I treasure freedom so much. How sweet it is after some deep contrast. But i would not use the word "abusive" anymore. That word seems to distort all the variety and all the clarity that contrast brings. I call it expansive, or hitting the ground running, rocket launching type of childhood. You know, the stuff that dreams are made of.
Evey, thanks for noticing that word. I'm going to cut out that word "abusive" from my vocabulary unless it's absolutely necessary to use it in other circumstances for people who wouldn't get the word "contrast".
So to look at it in another way, for all of us who swam in contrast growing up, thanks to us, we're all expanding greatly!
Thank you for starting this thread! I am a foster parent, in the process of adopting and trying to find a better feeling place about this often-frustrating process. This is a EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. I feel much better, so thank you, thank you!!