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star fairy
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 Posted: Fri Jun 4th, 2010 03:54 pm
well, I am feeling disappointed...as a child, I used to be able to feel the power of I AM and then I would try to manifest stuff (I tried to manifest physical stuff or to move things with my mind or make my stuffed animals come to life or will my parents not to get divorced or to fly) I wasn't too successful and learned a vibration of disappointment.
Then I found meditation and was able to let stuff go. I was able to kind of just float along sorta manifesting, sorta not, just "living" as most (boring) people live and then I got tired of that and started searching again and finally found Abe
Then I was optimistic; read everything listented to the CDs went to a workshop read other periferal Abe stuff did it all, felt good, focus wheels, processes up, meditate, let it go drop the oars feeling good not facing reality (which if i did face had many scary aspects but still soothed myself) optimism, knowing. it was all going good. money started showing up in tiny amounts. i was grateful for it, for a coin, for more, for life. gratitude, love etc
This was oh I dunno since maybe January but now I am just so freakin tired of it all - and I am disappointed again - and at the 'wheres my stuff" part - and it sucks. I hate feeling like this but know I have to embrace feeling like this - know I have to seek relief - but why the f is it taking so long?  how can i change my vibrations? I FEEL like i am dOing it but my reality doesnt shift so I must not be - but if I think and feel I am then how the hell do I know what to do , I feel like a failure at this and the "u cant get it wrong" thing sounds like total bs to me - yeah o k so i cant get it wrong but that could mean that this unhappiness is still 'right' - doesn't feel good - and they say if it doesnt feel good then it's not aligned , not what IB thinks so um that is universally wrong, no??
anyway i am just sad disappointment overwhelmed sick of this crap but dont know how to give up, cant pray to gods to make it happen - gotta make it happen myself but obviously have no clue wtf i am doing since i was doing it ALL RIGHT and then I "took score" and now I'm sunk :(

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 Posted: Fri Jun 4th, 2010 07:00 pm

Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. 

Just zip your lips with a padlock.


:)






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 Posted: Fri Jun 4th, 2010 07:09 pm
lol LOVE that song

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 Posted: Fri Jun 4th, 2010 08:59 pm
that wasn't very nice, they are asking for help and advice.
Maybe you are focusing on what you don't want more than what you do want?

The reason you can't get it wrong is because in the end, we all expand from your experiences.  That is what this whole thing is about, expansion.

Marc is the one to help you, maybe pm him?

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 Posted: Fri Jun 4th, 2010 11:16 pm
Thanks for the vote of confidence, but there are many wonderful people who can add their helpful perspectives, too!

That said, this will make a lot of sense to you if you look at it in a different context:  What you've just described is exactly like going on a crash diet -- a person learns certain patterns and has a set expectation about their body, what they enjoy eating, etc.  They go on a diet, change what they're doing radically, and see some results for a while but at some point they just don't have the willpower to keep it up, the weight returns and they're more discouraged than when they started.  You were trying a vibrational crash diet and had the same experience.

What many people miss when it comes to diets or vibration is law of attraction.  That is, LOA will always bring you back toward what you've practiced most and when you try to make a big leap up the emotional scale, there's almost always a vibrational undertow that you don't like where you are. 

If you were able to make peace with where you are and be easy about things and make small, consistent changes, over time you'd easily move up the scale.  It's the diet/nutritional equivalent of maybe walking a few minutes each day and maybe eating 1 hoho instead of 2.  They don't seem like big changes and they don't get you all the way there, but if you do them consistently, they add up.  You might also think of them as steps on a stair.  They're easier, completely attainable intermediate chunks that, if you keep taking them, will get you where you want to go. 

In short, instead of trying to go from discouragement or disappointment to contentment, if you were to accept that where you are is okay and then try to feel a little better -- say, from disappointment to overwhelmed, and do that consistently, you'd feel better and before long overwhelmed would be your new, improved set-point.  Then you'd go from overwhelmed to frustrated, and before long your new set-point is frustration, etc.

chillinjoan
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 Posted: Sat Jun 5th, 2010 12:42 am
and Ta Da !

something about that Super Kitten.........

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 Posted: Sat Jun 5th, 2010 02:22 pm
thank you everyone from my aniheart

i don't like that kesha song :)  but I get not telling a unwantd story but sometimes it is necessary like even abe says that Esther sez "But Abraham it is TRUE" and they say "yes but so what"

anywayz...yesterday I was feeling in a bad slump and now it is dawn here and I slept on it all and on your replies and had wonderful dreams...

I know my meltdown was due to PMS (does abraham ever address this?????) and my forgetting MY TRUE SELF .... It isn't always easy to remember the power n energy...

Marc u r wise - I do have a fast moving stream and i hit the rocks a lot bcuz of it. o and thanks for changing my thread title to a more downstream one
I do try to move too fast, no doubt so I am maxin and relaxin this weekend and just backing off and trying to bask in the wonderous moment
love to all thank u
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 Posted: Sat Jun 5th, 2010 03:01 pm
Hey Star Fairy, ::hugging

Doesn't disappointment feel really yucky? I was in major disappointment and downright sick and tiredness earlier in the week, but you know what, just admitting and accepting where you, accepting how you feel and why... is enough for the feeling to go, to be replaced by a better one.

Maybe you've been trying too hard? Maybe you were happy-face-stickering?

It doesn't matter. What matters is you know where you are now, and where you want to be. You know how big the gap is (emotionally) and you can gently, graually, ease your way up the EGS to where you want to be...

As Abe says, be easy on yourself in all this, just allow yourself to be, and all will be well.

Remember, feelings are just indicators, they are a meesage DIRECT from your IB to let you know how close you are to it....

 think of it like the 'hotter/colder' game, where someone has to find the hidden object and are guided to it, by everyone shouting 'hotter' or 'colder.' If you're at disappointment then you're a lot nearer (hotter! ::devil)  to your IB than if you were at anger or despair... 

Also, remember we never get it done. Once you align with current desires, you'll launch a whole new lot of ::rocket ::rocket ::rocket and you'll then be 'trying' to align with them... It gets easier cos you know how the game works, you know what to do when you're at anger or frustration or disappointment, so you tend to stay less and less in those negative feelings - but they still feel yucky when you're there.... And they are supposed to! If the feeling didn't feel bad, you wouldn't know you were off course (getting colder) and want to change direction.

I don't know whether Abe has addressed PMS or not, but I have certainly found that the more aligned with ME I get, the less PMS I get...

I remember a stage where I would feel pretty good for 3 weeks every month and the 4th week I would feel LOUSY.. and I would wonder, 'how the hell am I supposed to get a consistently good vibe going, when 1 week out of every month my hormones are all over the place and I am (at best) exhausted?'

 I found the answer to be, 'be aware' when i realised that I had PMS, I just relaxed as much as possible and nurtured myself as much as possible and didn't try to feel better....

Eventually, the PMS got less and less and the good feelings more and more, now I hardly ever get it! No yucky physical side-effects, either!

So keep going, and trust yourself to get there in the end.

With love,

Rach

::hugging

 

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 Posted: Sat Jun 5th, 2010 06:14 pm
I had gallbladder surgery a couple of days ago.
Several people asked if I was nervous and I wasn't at all, not even a little bit.  I KNEW it was fine.  I am even vacuuming today.

yet, gotta tell ya, that PMS and Menopause hormonal crap is the worst !  You know you will come out of it so that is comforting.

We can only do our best to keep our thoughts away from what is ailing us and change to what you want to feel like.

Kittens, work for me, I always change my ill thoughts to kittens purring in my ear, rubbing against my cheek and kissing those adorable faces.  I hold the thought for awhile till my mind wanders someplace else.

then I'm good...........till next time.........rinse.....repeat



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 Posted: Sun Jun 6th, 2010 05:31 am
From June 5th Abraham Workshop: 

in vortex talk your head off
out of vortex be very very quiet


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 Posted: Sun Jun 6th, 2010 02:18 pm
Mark,  I've got to say you are BRILLIANT!:kiss:

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 Posted: Thu Sep 1st, 2011 01:19 pm
i guess you're just trying too hard, just don't do nothing just relax, let go, go to the beach, take a bath xD and you gotta "don't give a fuss" about the manifestations

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