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Daughters X causes conflict
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Bonita
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 Posted: Fri Jul 16th, 2010 07:44 pm
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My daughter divorced a year ago.  Prior to her trouble I passed Abe's teaching on to her....provide good guidence.  These teachings have helped her to stay focused on feeling good.  Trouble is, her X is all about uncooperation.  He uses their two beautiful children to create frustration and anger.  Wants the children, a control issue,  but does not provide quality time with them.  The children express feeling left out but still love their dad. 

I know one should only focus on what feels good to them.  Let others feel and do as they choose, but it is difficult to see the children feel hurt and anger. 

I try to manifest ::rocketserenity between the two parents...cooperation for the sake of the children.  I get confused here, because by doing so, am I then trying to change another persons ways or feelings to suit mine.  Where does the happy medium come in.  The children are young so there will be many years of the parents trying to communicate and cooperate.

Any advise, or statements from experience will help.  I love ::heartsmy grandchildren and want peace and understanding for them....not arguments and uncooperation. 

Lifebloom82
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 Posted: Fri Jul 16th, 2010 09:00 pm
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As much as you adore your grandchildren and your daughter you have to find some way of letting this be a non-issue for just a little bit. Get off to yourself for a bit, get feeling a little bit better, and trust that your children - regardless of their age, know how to make decisions that workout in their best interests.


One thing I did want to point out to you was this:
"I try to manifest ::rocketserenity between the two parents...cooperation for the sake of the children.  I get confused here, because by doing so, am I then trying to change another persons ways or feelings to suit mine.  Where does the happy medium come in.  The children are young so there will be many years of the parents trying to communicate and cooperate."


So when Abe points out that contrast serves all of us, and that we don't all want a "feathered nest", that goes for all of us. If that's true do you really want to have a say in whether or not your grandchildren, daughter and her ex-spouse get to have their step one moments?

Just food for thought

<3

LB

SheerLuckHolmes
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 Posted: Fri Jul 16th, 2010 09:11 pm
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Energy is always moving in a snowball effect.  And we are each our own hill.

For you: As you remain centered and in your vortex of feeling good, everyone that comes into your life will reflect back to you your vibration ~ good feelings or not.

For your daughter: As she remains centered and in her vortex of feeling good, everyone that comes into her life will reflect back to her, her vibration ~ good feelings or not.

For your grandchildren: As they remain centered and in their vortex of feeling good, everyone that comes into their life will reflect back to them, their vibration ~ good feelings or not.

Your daughter's relationship with her ex is a reflection of her vibration regarding her ex.  The more she appreciates her ex and sees him as her IB sees him, the more he will reflect back to her equal measures of good.

You can not vibrate for anyone but yourself.

These are all masterful creators within a co-creation of their own making.  Pay full attention to your own desires that are coming forth from this contrast for you and allow everyone else to do the same.


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