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lifeisgood
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 Posted: Fri Jul 23rd, 2010 12:36 pm
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What is the feeling of being in love? What causes one to be so attached to a specific person? Why does it feel like no one could ever take that person's place? Why is it that usually one does find someone to take that person's place and then it starts all over again?

Is there a better way?::chin

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 Posted: Fri Jul 23rd, 2010 12:54 pm
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Oh, I know there must be a gazillion quotes from Abraham saying it better than me....but basically that the focusing upon this person is your excuse/reason/mechanism-by-which you close the gap between you and You.

The feeling you are actually feeling that feels so DELISH is the feeling of alignment with Yourself. You may think that it has to do with the other person, but it was just your focus on them and their positive aspects (Sourciness) that became the catalyst to realize your own Sourciness.

That is why the feeling of "being in love" feels so great and that is why you can often re-obtain it with another. Know it or not, it never had to do with the person, only with your own alignment.


Oh, I hope someone quotes Abraham, I'm stumbling on wording and it'll sound so much better coming from them.


Oh, and the "better way" is to focus on Yourself and your own alignment first and foremost and you can carry that feeling with you everywhere and with anyone.

::cool

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 Posted: Fri Jul 23rd, 2010 02:55 pm
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Great answer TryAgain! you really hit the nail on the head. I asked this question and then went running (10k) I got my answer. It is fun to use relationships as an excuse to get into the Vortex but not as an excuse to NOT get into the Vortex!

I shot into the Vortex and Miiiiiiiiilllllllked it!

::woohoo

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 Posted: Fri Jul 23rd, 2010 03:32 pm
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great answer Try Again!!  makes perfect sense :)

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 Posted: Fri Jul 23rd, 2010 03:58 pm
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I think this should be moved.  It is under Workshops.:allgood

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 03:45 am
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TryAgain wrote: The feeling you are actually feeling that feels so DELISH is the feeling of alignment with Yourself. You may think that it has to do with the other person, but it was just your focus on them and their positive aspects (Sourciness) that became the catalyst to realize your own Sourciness.

That is why the feeling of "being in love" feels so great and that is why you can often re-obtain it with another. Know it or not, it never had to do with the person, only with your own alignment.


 

Oh I love the sauciness of Sourciness in relationship to this topic ::LOL Such a great word..I love my Sourciness ::devil

Also love that it ALWAYS & ONLY comes back to our own alignment, and closing our own gap. I can never hear this enough, coz whenever I do, it makes me instantly pivot back to that knowing and into my wonderful Vortex. ::woohoo

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 09:02 am
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Fantastic stuff, guys! Sourciness!  Love it!  And Dee, :kiss: thanks for telling me about the thread.

I am back in North America! And I'm in Calgary for a family reunion. I was feeling off, and instead of acting from that place, I took steps to get back into alignment:  I pivoted, I called some prayer lines, I meditated, and Voilá! I'm back in the Vortex! I'm happy to be here! I can't wait to see all the new babies in our family tomorrow! I feel awake and alive and energized, and nothing has changed, except my focus.

This thread and others are helping with that.  It's so good to know this stuff.

Jerry, running is such a good idea. Breaking a sweat is  a slingshot into the Vortex. I am going to prepave for that first thing tomorrow morning.

Much love and appreciation to you all!
Leslie::rainbow

And gosh, it's nice to have wiFi again! I think I'll Miiiillllllllk that!
::LOL

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 01:20 pm
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Deester wrote:
Oh I love the sauciness of Sourciness in relationship to this topic ::LOL Such a great word..I love my Sourciness ::devil



Oh Me TOO! Ever since I first read it which was about 30 seconds ago. ::LOL

::hugging::TU

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 02:12 pm
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lifeisgood wrote: What is the feeling of being in love?

To me it is about seeing the best parts of me reflected in who or what I am in love WITH. But it looks like someone/something OTHER than me so it bypasses the part of me that says "I can't be THAT magnificent"

If I am falling in love with someone or something, it is the love flowing THROUGH me that makes it feel so darn GOOD.

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 02:52 pm
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Being in love is INTENSE pleasure....the result of pure focus--

For me, it starts with the glint in the other person's eyes, the curve of a body, the architecture of a face, the dulcet tones of a voice...an intense meditative focus on the beautiful aspects of the other person, starting a chain reaction...

When the vibe is pure, the other person responds in kind, focusing and pouring pure love energy back onto me, magnifying and multiplying the intensity explosively and exponentially. The cocreation of pleasure is intense....

When you're falling in love, EVERYTHING the other person does is amazing, everything they say is wise and witty and funny....you get on the same wavelength and begin to communicate deeply, influencing each other to intense laughter, intense peace, intense relief...sharing experiences and seeing them in a similar way. Law of Attraction creates an amazing Vortex of cooperative components, so you "fall" deeper and deeper into a sense of Oneness...

The 17 seconds, 68 seconds thing is SO true...falling in love begins with that PURE, PLEASURABLE POINT OF FOCUS and goes from there.

-Chris

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 02:53 pm
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lifeisgood wrote: What is the feeling of being in love? What causes one to be so attached to a specific person? Why does it feel like no one could ever take that person's place? Why is it that usually one does find someone to take that person's place and then it starts all over again?

Is there a better way?::chin

The feeling of being in love is: walking on air, being carried by the joyous stream of well-being. It is seeing everything through the eyes of Source - everything sparkles, everything's bright, everything is perfect, perfect, perfect. it is the feeling of LOVE pouring through you.

Falling in love (with someone) is meeting your perfect match - and recognising them! It is 'saying' 'come to me, you perfect being, you are everything  I desire.'

 And you feel it so powerfully, so strongly, that you cannot believe another could ever make you feel like this....

And then you discover Abe....

And realise that they were/are your excuse to allow love to pour through you, but that you can allow love to pour through you just by setting the intention to feel it. You realise that you could use anything as your excuse to allow love to pour through you...

So you start looking for excuses to allow love to pour through you.

And you start dropping all those limiting, bogus thoughts that tell you you need X, Y or Z before you can allow love to pour through you...

And you allow love to pour through you.

And then you are in the vortex

And then you realise you are in love with yourself, your life, with everything....

and then your perfect match comes up to you and says 'hi," and you recognise them and 'say' "come to me,  you perfect being, you are everything I desire." ::LOL

LOVE. Falling in love, being in love, loving, being loved., being LOVE, being liquid love. I LOVE LOVE!

Love,

Rach

::hugging :kiss: ::hearts  aniheart ::ilu 

 

 

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 03:12 pm
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wow rach :):):):) you always walways say the right things and make them seem so simple :kiss:

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 03:43 pm
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Hi Rachel,

wow!!  i always enjoy your posts, you have a wonderful way with words!!::TU

Chantell

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 06:29 pm
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Oh, now I want to be madly IN LOVE again.....it's done

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 11:45 pm
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angelman66 wrote: Being in love is INTENSE pleasure....the result of pure focus--  SNIP> ...an intense meditative focus on the beautiful aspects of the other person, starting a chain reaction...

When the vibe is pure, the other person responds in kind, focusing and pouring pure love energy back onto me, magnifying and multiplying the intensity explosively and exponentially. The cocreation of pleasure is intense....

SNIP>     The 17 seconds, 68 seconds thing is SO true...falling in love begins with that PURE, PLEASURABLE POINT OF FOCUS and goes from there.

-Chris


 

right on Chris!!

I´m getting butterflies just reading that!! sooo good!!

:kiss:

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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 05:04 am
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OK Ya'll here is the deal, straight from "The Source"

Appreciation for one we love is an Asking, just like Asking comes from Contrast in relationship. Each relationship creates a perfect result in our Vortex (not just after a a relationship ends but while it is happening). Each relationship gets better, because of both Appreciation of positive aspects of another, and the asking that comes from contrast.

We can only experience life through expansion and the moving towards something. A relationship has to expand to be experienced as life. As you better and better know what you are wanting you align more with another wanting that. That is a lot of why each gets better and is more then the last. Know that you lose nothing that you have appreciated in another. That appreciation was an asking, and you will recognize those positive aspects in the next relationship. Don't worry, the next person will have even cuter toes and be even better sexually! lol. But all humor aside, I mean that, this is 101% truth. 

Just know that by being crazy about your love, you might appreciate them right out of your life because another fits better your Asking! But you don't lose them, the beloved positive aspects will be even greater in the next person. This is the reality of it.

But if you know what you want, and that is a lover, or a life partner (life has caused you to ask) you will have just that.

Just have fun along the way. Couldn't heartbreak be celebrated? Mine is a bit broken right now, but I celebrate that. Ya heartbreak is out of the Vortex, but I return with a deeper heart that has "physically changed" and has an ability to love and feel like never before. And this is to an increased level I could never have imagined.

I don't mind feeling a little empty right now. I experienced the most beautiful experience of my life, and now... am expecting the best ever relationship again. So much is in my Vortex now from the last, I cannot even imagine what is in store for me. And that is the beauty of it? Are you getting this?

The most amazing experience of my life, is continued... even better... and all that was appreciated has been made more extraordinary then I can even imagine. The next experience as I align with it, requires the still tender from some hurting heart, that is also more capable of love then it has EVER been.

"Your Heart is Free, do you have the Courage to Follow it?" -- Braveheart.

YES I DO!

Remember Heartbreak is an Asking. Allow it and see it as beautiful and back in the Vortex you go. It must means the last was really really good, and the Best Ever is lining up with you... just allow it

::downstream

Craig


Last edited on Sun Jul 25th, 2010 05:06 am by the_source

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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 09:50 am
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Dear Rach,

What you wrote is so absolutely beautiful, it truly moved me.

Thank you!::flowers:beautiful:::wow

Sherry::hearts

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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 12:27 pm
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You are in love when you see the wonderful aspects of one person. It is all your own focus.
When I heard Abe saying things like this, it resonated with me a lot.
But still I 'forgot' it somehow. In my last relationship, the feeling of being in love was mostly gone. I felt more negative emotions, like anger, sadness, bitterness (is that a word in English?)
And now we broke up, and I got the space I needed. I can breathe again, I can let go of my feeling of depending on him. I no longer need him to act a certain way for me to feel good, and I no longer feel sadness for him not doing that.
I see him as a person on his own again, and I can focus on his many wonderful positive aspects again.. and yes, you can guess it, I am in love with him like I was before.
Of course it's not great timing, since we are not together anymore, but it showed me that we can always choose to be in love. It is not something that just happens and fades away when it wants to. It is us, only us, that makes it happen.
Isn't it great that our focus has so much power!

Love ::hearts

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 Posted: Fri Jul 30th, 2010 09:14 pm
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Thank you for posting this!  I've been struggling with a broken heart recently and stumbled onto this post and after reading it I can feel love in every cell.  I feel so much better!!!!    Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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 Posted: Fri Jul 30th, 2010 09:26 pm
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That feeling of being in love.....can we have that for more than one person at a time?
I don't think so. Romantic love seems to have to be one person at a time. We just can't open and allow for more than one, it seems.
But the love after romantic love - that I believe we can feel for many at the same time.
I think???

 I mean for us average folk, not the ones who are buzzing in their Vortex 95% or more of their waking hours. ::devil


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