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Vera79
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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 03:09 pm
I am sooo fed up now! I am tired of waiting for my desire (money + house)! I have to share the flat with my parents... Not abeish parents! :( ANd I have my boyfriend (fiancee) since 7 years!!! We are happy together but, we don't live together, although he is at me a lot.
I have sometimes signs that I am close to my desire. But then nothing. I am impatient!
Sometimes I can feel soo very very good, that I don't care about anything, even about my desire. But this happens not every day.
I am reading AAIIG since 2006, listen to tons of Abe videos on youtube, I have 4 other books from abe too. Listened to ABE CDs, I can give very good advice to my friends. But I am alone now, my boyfriend does not like Abe theories, okay, he has read the book and nows about LOA, but he prefers action vs. theory (as he says). Sometimes we can talk about Abeish stuff, because he doesn't even know that it is abe stuff, and he likes it. :)
But now I am stuck! I just can't help it. I've tried everything, I don't wanna meditate, I am fed up with that. I am fed up with everything. I just think sometimes that Abe suggests to suppress the emotions, but that can't be good. I may misunderstand it. I am noticing that am feeling sad or anrgy and then I begin to suppress it on an unconcious level, because I know that then I am attracting negative stuff.
Last week I just practiced self love for a few days, and I felt wonderful, and I got a very good sign from the Universe, my girlfriend showed her fathers new house, wow, it was beautiful and almost as I have imagined it!!!! So I think that was a pretty obvious sign from the Universe.
But I just get tired of always trying to get high vibrations. I can't do that for days. If only I could maintain it for 21 or 28 days, wow, that would be enough and great! Because Abe says to make a new habit it takes 28 days.
Anyone can help???? I am sooo sad :(((((
Sometimes I mix these spiritual books, like Abe, Tolle, Osho and Louise hay, and I end up being in chaos!! Every book has great ideas and thoughts, but I just get crazy! Abe is the best for me for sure, but when I am out of balance I try to grab an other book than Abe.
Help!! Please!

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 03:29 pm
Hello to you!:)

I can sure relate. Lots of contrast going on here too.

Hey, how bout 68 seconds, instead of 28 days?
You could easily do that, right?

When i've been feeling like you are right now.
The best advice i received, im going to share with you.

DISTRACT YOURSELF!::woohoo

What do you like? Go to a great movie. Take a walk in the local park,
and enjoy the trees. Pet your dog or cat. Read a good novel.
Try to forget about the problems, just for a tiny bit of time.

I hear you. I have moments of feeling like that too.
And have reached out to our loving Abers for advice.

And when i'm that overwhelmed, Distraction was the answer.

Remember, you can't get it wrong. All is well.
Take a breath, and know that from the other side of the world.
My good thoughts are with you.
Try to be easy with yourself. (i forget that one):shock:

It might be easier to find relief than you think.:beautiful:

And there are so many wonderful folks on this site who support you,
as they have supported me.

Much love, Cindy xo:kiss:

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 03:37 pm
Thank you Cindy! You are so kind! I will try it! I will find a book and read it, oh I have a few comedies on my computer which I have downloaded and haven't seen yet! I will watch one. ::TU

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 03:56 pm
I'm so happy,
you are feeling a little bit better.::fireworks

You did it!!!::woohoo

I understand how you feel, i've been feeling that extreme contrast,
and thought i'd lose my sanity.

And i turned here for support. And found it with such uplifting love and
support from fellow Abers.

Oh, i have found pre-paving helps me a lot too. And its easy to do.

Keep up the good work! You can find relief in this moment.
Enjoy the movie, great idea.::grapevine

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 04:20 pm
Yes, I am better. I have started the film. I will PM you later.
How is it exactly pre-paving done? , I kinda know, but this word "pre-paving" is for me like chinese.. ::devil Can you explain..? Thanks!

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 04:24 pm
Can you see how much energy you are putting into pushing your stuff away?

It looks like youre ready to give up and that is really a good place to be. What if you STOPPED trying?

What if what happens tomorrow or in the future just doesn't matter? You didn't come here to figure out the future. You came here to be happy now. And right now in this moment nothing is lacking. Nothing is needed.

I have said this before but a thought must be followed in order to cause you to suffer. You can't stop the thought---you can just see it as a painful thought and it's just not that interesting and see how easy it is to just let it pass right on through.

You didn't come into physical to struggle---whether with what IS or with your own emotions.

Just let go. The universe is always friendly, you are perfectly safe. be happy, have fun now and let the universe or your universal manager look after the details. Just feel good right now---even if that means you drop *wanting* something.

Your desires won't go away---but it will help you to stop activating the  reasons that you want them.

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 04:24 pm
Vera79 wrote: I just think sometimes that Abe suggests to suppress the emotions, but that can't be good. I may misunderstand it. I am noticing that am feeling sad or anrgy and then I begin to suppress it on an unconcious level, because I know that then I am attracting negative stuff.

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Anyone can help???? I am sooo sad :(((((
Sometimes I mix these spiritual books, like Abe, Tolle, Osho and Louise hay, and I end up being in chaos!! Every book has great ideas and thoughts, but I just get crazy! Abe is the best for me for sure, but when I am out of balance I try to grab an other book than Abe.

Vera79, dearest!

Never have Abraham suggested that we SUPPRESS our emotions. Every single emotion we can experience is absolutely valuable guidance and the perfect indication of where we are currently vibrating. Suppressing emotions and pretending to be happy about something that we are not happy about is what Abraham call "happy-face stickering". What they do advise is trying to find just slightly better-feeling thoughts about whatever it is that is making us feel bad. These do not have to be Happy-Joy-Joy thoughts. Anger can feel better than despair, unless we believe that anger is never appropriate. Blame can feel even better, as can disappointment or doubt. And they do advise distraction with better-feeling subjects.

Don't worry too much about "attracting negative stuff". Well-being is assured, and it takes A LOT of negative thinking to allow negative physical manifestations. The balance is always toward well-being, ALWAYS. And actively resisting negative thoughts or emotions does not equal allowing the well-being to flow. If you are feeling bad about a subject, ACCEPT THAT and yourself, and look at something that feels better to think about. Don't fight anything.

All those spiritual teachers are great. Take from each what resonates with you. Even Abraham say that if something they say doesn't quite jibe, to ignore it. Your only truly reliable guidance is within you. It is your Inner Being, always calling you toward your expansion. And you can tell you are keeping up with your IB when you feel GOOD. Using any excuse you can to do so. There is no one "right way".

You cannot get it wrong. Believe that.

::hugging
Christine

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 04:45 pm
Vera, as Abe always want us to say, i want it because, i want it because, i want it because,  instead of i want it but, i want it but.........Vera, Be proud of Yourself, ur guidance system is calling u forward for the fullfillment of ur desire, allignment!!!! dont you remember, do you? Is the allignment that matter!!!!! Abe always say, everything that u have now, is past tense. It is the vibrational reality that is present tense!!!! does that ring a bell? just feel it............................... how about meditate now...........................feel it......................... Abe always say your work is non work, ur work is to play into the vortex...................... ur work is to look for feeling that feel good................. your work is to relax a little more................. I am sure the moment you let go of the when where how................ then the sooner it will come................... Abe always love us all

thank you so much Abraham, Estherham, jerryham.............:kiss:

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 05:06 pm
Some of Abraham's words from the "Fred" thread seem appropriate here:

"And that’s why when you say, I’m just weary of this, we say, that’s a very good sign. Because when you’re weary, you’re getting ready to stop the struggle.

You see, we want to convince you that you can’t NOT get what you want, but you can prolong its coming by struggling against the current. And the reason we’re belaboring this with you, is because we want everybody to stop for a little bit and identify what are your reasons for pushing against things.

In other words, we know that you ultimately want the relationship that you want, so what is it that you, and almost everyone else, is unwilling to just let it go, to just drop it. Say, Step 1, Step 2, Step 3. Step 1: Boy, I’ve done that. I’ve launched my desires. Step 2 is Source answers which means it is already done, which means I’m being called toward it. Step 3 is I just have to allow myself to float freely on the current that moving toward what I want in a free flowing environment until I get there. If you know what you want is there and you know you’re floating, then why would you feel anything but joy?

We say, you wouldn’t, if you were floating. It’s the paddling upstream thing that makes it not fun. So just stop that. We would encourage you to just get off the subject for awhile. Find some other things that are important to you. Don’t belabor it. Don’t keep working at it. Don’t keep up the struggle. You see, every subject is really two subjects; what is wanted and the lack of it. It’s a fine line when you activate the subject of your desire, whether you activate it with the flow or against it. If you habit is to worry about it, then every time you activate it, you’re going to worry about it. You’ve got to find some way from disengaging from that need to do something about it.

We don’t want you to give up on your goal or give up on your desire. In fact, we know you can’t. You cannot be less than life has caused you to become. But you can allow yourself to go toward it or you can keep yourself from going toward it, and you can tell in the moment of discussion which you are doing." - Abraham

Seek relief!
-C

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 07:48 pm
Hi Vera- After struggling and fighting with one of my issues (which i've posted about here) It finally hit me- after a very intense night  earlier this week where i was extremely frustrated about my issue and even more frustrated on top of that for being frustrated. i finally threw my hands up and said F*it this is how i feel...i'm sick of fighting against it...and i proceeded to indulge in a major crying fest with sobbing and tantrums and it just felt sooo great to give up the fight to just let myself feel what i felt...the relief that came from that was enourmous and i STILL feel the effects of that today nearly 5 days later...and the  great thing is i haven't done ANYTHING...no processes...no meditating...no trying...i've just let myself feel how i feel...and naturally i have just  felt more and more release...whenever i see myself putting up the slightest bit of a fight i just tell myself...this is how i feel...and let it be.

Point  is...there is nothing wrong with how you feel- your aren't attracting anything negative- try letting yourself off the hook and feeling how you feel. It sounds like you are sick of trying...so that is GOOD run with that...stop trying...

It is done...it is DONE...whatever you want is done- there is NOTHING you have to do...not even TRY to feel  better...by TRYING to feel better you are focusing on the fact that you don't...stop TRYING...that alone will give you relief and from there the stream will carry you to all the things you want. (the better feeling...the house...the money...)

Any time you feel bad just remember you don't have to try to do anything...just say ok this is how i feel  and it's ok...by letting go of the need to DO something about it you will feel relief...

sweet relief...

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 Posted: Fri Aug 6th, 2010 08:23 pm
CreatorChristine wrote: Never have Abraham suggested that we SUPPRESS our emotions. Every single emotion we can experience is absolutely valuable guidance and the perfect indication of where we are currently vibrating. Suppressing emotions and pretending to be happy about something that we are not happy about is what Abraham call "happy-face stickering". What they do advise is trying to find just slightly better-feeling thoughts about whatever it is that is making us feel bad.
What CC said.  Your emotions are useful.  They tell you what your thoughts are doing to your vibe.

One way to find a better feeling thought is to first identify the thoughts fueling your emotion.  In order to do that, feel the emotion honestly.  Get into it.  Then ask "What is this emotion about?".  Find the desire that is fueling the emotion.  Once you have done that, you can more clearly do what CC said: find a better feeling thought. 

Vera79
wrote: But I just get tired of always trying to get high vibrations.
You do?  I do find improving my vibe to be work, but once it starts moving up, it doesn't wear me out.  I suspect it is the suppressing of emotion that is wearing you out, not the high vibration.

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 Posted: Sat Aug 7th, 2010 02:20 am
TheXception wrote: I suspect it is the suppressing of emotion that is wearing you out, not the high vibration.
:exactly: BINGO!

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 Posted: Sat Aug 7th, 2010 04:39 pm
You are so amazing! All of you!
So true what you have said. In EVERY answer there is wisdom, which I can use, and I totally agree with them. And I do not fight with the emotions any more. I let them be, I noticed it long ago too, that if I do not fight it, it will melt away, without any effort.
It seems that I have forgotten that, but YOU (all of you) have reminded me!!!!! Thanks a lot!! You are awesome!
Fight the emotions = resistance, Let them be, accepting them = no resistance
:kiss:

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 Posted: Sat Aug 7th, 2010 04:44 pm
Oh, I really do not have to do anything!!! Because Well Being is assured, and if I don't suppress anything, there will be no resistance and then the stream will carry me.. hihi ::LOL Easy!

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 Posted: Tue Aug 31st, 2010 03:37 pm
I am stuck again. And it is days out of the Vortex. I just can't maintain to be in the Vortex most of the time or at least 60% of my day, as I want. So my desires suck, they can't come. I don't see any evidence, or some glimpse or anything, so how can I believe? I really want to believe, I read AAIIG, it is under my pillow. But it is hard to believe anything if you don't know how it is gonna happen. I just can't believe now. I want to know how it will happen and I will believe it then. But it is hard work to believe and feel good when you don't know how and when it's gonna happen. Now I am at that point where this whole Abe teaching makes me so mad and angry, "you gotta feel good before it happens". NO! I can't! I want a desire because currently I am at a place where I don't like to be! And yes I am angry now, I let it be, it will disappear know. and I will feel good again for a few hours or maybe days, then again I will feel disappointed and angry.. then the whole thing starts again.. I am going nowhere! Angry -happy - angry - depressed -happy- angry,disappointed - happy - sad, hopeless-- hopeful, happy... then said again.
Of course when I am in the Vortex I think it differently, and don't even care when or how it is gonna happen, but most of the time I am out of Vortex.
And it is raining for 3 days...
Now what can I do?

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 Posted: Tue Aug 31st, 2010 03:51 pm
Everything is because of money! I should change my beliefs towards money. I know EFT. I would like to hear some success-stories in the subject of money and EFT.

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 Posted: Tue Aug 31st, 2010 04:15 pm
I am much better. I did tap 2 rounds EFT. ::cool

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 Posted: Tue Aug 31st, 2010 04:16 pm
how are you posting on this site?

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 Posted: Tue Aug 31st, 2010 04:19 pm
How? Just like other sites.. Why?

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because we moved to the new abeforum. go to http://www.abeforum.com

 


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