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Flower Power
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 01:36 pm |
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For example :
I got a new job - a fantastic new job - so I tell this to few friends and unknowingly - one of them feels jealous bout my new job and start to have negative thinking like "hope she got fire soon!" - so will that kind of thinking really got me fired ??
OR 2nd example :
I just found a good boyfriend so i start to gush bout him to of course, my friends and again - perhaps some of them will say "yeah right - see how long this will last" - so will that really break up me and my guy ??
Tks for your feedback !! 
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Belana
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 01:42 pm |
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Hello Flower Power,
Where on earth did you get that idea 
YOU are the only one who can manifest in YOUR world. I've read an Abe quote which stated: "what anybody else thinks of me is none of my business". So, if your friends are reacting in a jeallous way the question that springs to my mind is: "are they really friends or should you be better off without them"... Just a thought 
What they can do is talk negatively to you about these successes of yours in a way that you start vibrating the same feelings but again, it's YOUR vibration, so YOU would be letting them get under YOUR skin.
Make sense ?
Belana
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leewatters
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 01:47 pm |
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Only if you choose to think and believe those thoughts yourself.
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 01:52 pm |
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Unless you are a little bit tuned in the same way would you even take in and entertain that stuff?
But even then, and since we all do it sometimes, as Belana says, it's still ALL about you.
(And your IB.)
If you're thinking lemons, you get lemons ...but even if you thought lemons and got lemons, you can still go off and make a great lemonade!!
Sorry, feeling lightheaded today!
Keep lifting your vibe and gloss over as much of the rest as you can.
Ocean x 
Last edited on Wed May 14th, 2008 02:05 pm by Oceanturquoiseblue
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Flower Power
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 01:53 pm |
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Belana !! 
I love it when you said :
What they can do is talk negatively to you about these successes of yours in a way that you start vibrating the same feelings but again, it's YOUR vibration, so YOU would be letting them get under YOUR skin.
Make sense ?
yup !! I understand it so now i don't have to worry bout sharing my success coz i know whatever happens is MY vibration and no words or negative energy outside of me can influence it !! 
By the way - love your location !! 
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 01:58 pm |
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leewatters wrote: Only if you choose to think and believe those thoughts yourself.
Well Said !! Leewatters !!
Now I won't have any worries bout sharing my success anymore !! 
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:01 pm |
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Oceanturquoiseblue wrote:If you're thinking lemons, you get lemons ...but even if you thought lemons and got lemons, you can still go off and make a great lemonade!!
Sorry, is that suppose to be a funny line ?? I find it funny and LOVE IT !! Tks Ocean !!
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:05 pm |
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YES!
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:24 pm |
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I think that if you aren't deliberately keeping your vibration aligned with what you want, others may be able to draw you into their own vibration. Like if I have a jealous friend who tries to make me feel insecure, unless I am deliberately aware that I want to keep my vibration aligned with feeling secure, I will be more likely to be influenced.
But it's not that my friend is creating in my reality, it's that I am taking my vibration off of what is presented to me, rather than deciding the vibration I want and ignoring the vibrations around me.
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:27 pm |
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Aha! In EVERY moment ALL things exist and we get to keep choosing (or be directed by what and who is around us)
Mysticalcreator - you are a genius! 
Ocean (learning to put it in just a few words!!) x
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:33 pm |
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I agree with you Mysticalcreator !!
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:37 pm |
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I discovered this years ago - way before I knew about Abe and LOA. I had a co-worker who always talked about everyone else and how "we" were often left out or treated badly. Without even realizing it, I bought into this thinking and was not a happy camper at work. Then she went on vacation for two weeks, and I had an AHA moment when I realized how relaxed and happy I was when she was not there. So, I was more aware of what was going on from that point on with her and others at work, but I didn't know how not to get sucked in.
I am so happy to now have the knowledge to get myself out of those situations!
Nancy
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:42 pm |
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Good for you Nancy !!!
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 02:59 pm |
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I'm glad I was helpful!
A great thing to be aware of is "how do I feel after spending time with this person?" If you feel worse after spending time with them, it might be because you are not setting the intention of keeping your vibration aligned and you are allowing their views on the world or on you to influence your vibrations.
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Posted: Wed May 14th, 2008 03:04 pm |
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Flower Power wrote: leewatters wrote: Only if you choose to think and believe those thoughts yourself.
Well Said !! Leewatters !!
Now I won't have any worries bout sharing my success anymore !!
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