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Appreciating the crap out of your partner as a practice of Self Love! :)
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richardfranklinmorse
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 Posted: Mon Apr 12th, 2010 05:47 pm
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How fun and free, John!
Tracy and I are doing lists of each others' positive aspects every day and the list keeps getting longer...

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 Posted: Mon Apr 12th, 2010 06:01 pm
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AppreciateNow and Giggle Fritz, thank you so much for the things you've said here!

AppreciateNow, I love the process of becoming aware of where my body's point of balance is, as a tool for bringing me into awareness of my Source!

I also love the emphasis on seeing the IB of someone else~ that's a shift I find important to myself.
When I first started on the LoA teachings, I was noticing constantly when someone was in a cheerful mood or in a bad mood~ positive or negative, all the time noticing which they were. If they were negative, I would consider the ramifications of that, taking it as a lesson to myself. I'm ready now to see them as they really are, inside!


Giggle Fritz, you SOOooo win an Abe award for being so eloquent on the topic of self-love and being in the vortex!

I want to read this thread over and over, it's so gooooood! I'll be bookmarking this one, for sure!

::singer

Last edited on Mon Apr 12th, 2010 06:03 pm by christineepiphany

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 Posted: Mon Apr 12th, 2010 07:07 pm
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Lots and lots of LOVE John and a HUGE HUG from me. You know and I know that brighter and bigger wonderful things are HERE for you nooooooooooooooow!!!! ENJOOOOOOOOOOY ALL!!!

 

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 Posted: Mon Apr 12th, 2010 07:31 pm
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This thread is a TOTAL UPLIFTER!!!! Every single post is amazing!!!

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Some time ago I was disappointed when my sweetheart didn't want to spend the night with me on a certain night. I was really upset, and asked my inner being about it.
I realized, if she had said yes to me I'd be in heaven, but I'm upset because she said no. However, she's the same person whether she says yes or no, and if I love her, I love HER, not her behavior or whether what she does pleases me at a given moment.
::hearts

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 Posted: Tue Apr 13th, 2010 05:19 am
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richardfranklinmorse wrote: she's the same person whether she says yes or no, and if I love her, I love HER, not her behavior or whether what she does pleases me at a given moment.
::hearts
So true!! ::music

"Love because who you are is a lover. Love because it doesn't feel good not to."

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 Posted: Tue Apr 13th, 2010 05:37 am
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::TUThank you for this amazing thread, and so timely for me right now!!  ::hugging
::hearts Monica

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 Posted: Fri Apr 16th, 2010 03:46 am
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I am such a sucker for a great Abe Love story!!!!

:kiss:::stardust:kiss:::stardust:kiss:::stardust

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I love reading this post to see how I have been focused lately and have brought such love around me!!!
  I am ready to fall "in love" and have always thought that the term meant loving from a place or perspective, but I used to think so stubbornly that their was one person that we came to meet and that they would be our soul mate.  So how incredibly wonderful that my perception has changed from an outward search to an inward one!!!:beautiful:    I am my own soul's mate!!!
    I heard this recently and loved it!!! for myself and for everyone else too! It's truly a win-win situation!
    The place of being "in love", I realize now, is the vortex! I am defining new relationships for myself and loving from the vortex feels "just right".
    I am not looking for someone to complete me or romance me or even affirm me, because those things all feel like handing over my happiness to someone else.... as in "do you have time for me now?" "could you tell me again how wonderful I am because we have been apart for almost 2 hours now and I haven't heard it so I am wondering if you still think so?::LOL!   I am making the shift from that to this.... I adore you, I utterly and completely adore you, it feels good to know who you really are and to hold you to that standard of expectation! I am "in love" with you ... I am in a place of love and holding you in my mind as that love.... so here we are together in our natural state of being ... connected to all ... expansion for all ... the center of the universe... sacred... savoring and savored!!! :kiss::beautiful:


     Welcome to the new "in love" where you are everything and you cannot get it wrong and the universe savors every detail about you and you savor every detail about the universe and oh by the way, in the vortex, you really do live happily ever after!::singer   Moments of time are really suspended when you look into one another's eyes, souls connect and making love is as much about connecting with who you really are as connecting with the you that embodies another!!! The new "in love" embraces you for all you really are and is eager for more of you! You never have to earn this love that you are, nor do you have to ask for permission to love, be loved or align with love because it's yours already, it's so yours it is you!! ::LOLIt's so you it emanates from you and is reflected back to you everywhere you go. The new "in love" is the abundance of the universe and never requires you to be humble or pretend that you are not who you are. the new "in love" embraces that you are source, rejoices in your being source, lines everything up so you can experience more of your being source!
     Welcome to the new "in love" where it is always your turn, where it really is finally "all about you" and everyone knows it and celebrates it too!!! Where you are in charge of how good you feel and what you allow in to your experience! ::singer:kiss: Where goose bumps are prevalent and so are verbal orgasms and the senses you thought you were so familiar with have been vibrationally goosed up and you really are "in love" with everything and everyone for your own joy of savoring  and being savored!!!  Just for you ... by you.... all you have to do is know it is not only yours but it is so you!!! ::money::money::money:kiss::kiss::kiss:
     You are the abundance of the universe, the creator of life and the expansion of all, and when you are here everyone will see you that way because you see you that way and life is magical, sensual, full of epiphanies and lived in color baby!!!
Oh yeah! lots of color!!!!  ::grapevine  ::grapevine  ::grapevine
     Welcome to the new "in love" and prepare to be savored and to savor because life is all about the joy of the experience and the only person you have to be concerned about getting to fall in love with you.... IS YOU! :kiss::exactly:
   :beautiful:            Enjoy!!!

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 Posted: Thu May 6th, 2010 07:47 am
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Ooh, I'm so glad this thread surfaced again. I read it the first time it came up and loved it, and now reading it again is even more exciting.

I'm having a few days alone while my husband is off at a family event in another state. I'm so loving have time to myself. I'm listening to music I love and reading a book I love and appreciating the heck out of my life. I'm in the vortex and soooo happy.

And I realize I've been resisting seeing my husband as Source sees him lately. He did something that made me furious last week, and I got over my initial rage quickly but held on to a grudge. Reading this thread made me realize that I'm afraid to unconditionally love him because I'm afraid I'll be inviting him to behave like crap again.

Wrong! Giving unconditional love is a selfish thing done for me by me because it feels good. Wow, that's such a biggie.

John, if you're still reading this thread, hello! I sat with you at dinner one night on the Caribbean cruise, and I look forward to seeing you again on the Alaska cruise. You one cruising dude!

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 Posted: Thu May 6th, 2010 12:48 pm
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Great dear.nice story

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 Posted: Mon May 10th, 2010 04:55 am
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Congratulations... everything is always working well for you.

We are all loved.

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 Posted: Mon May 10th, 2010 11:50 am
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AppreciateNow wrote:

As I'd mentioned, my biggest insight from the first cruise was: regardless of others' words and actions, I am determined not to be distracted from what I know about who they really are!


 

Thank you for this wonderful reminder, John

I read it at the right moment, and it helped me to pivot easily and to see my negative beliefs around something instead of reacting.

We are so blessed to have this wisdom and beauty of these teachings to practise with.

Thank you everyone for this uplifting thread.

 

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 Posted: Mon May 10th, 2010 12:22 pm
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Hey John!!

I must say I am sort of in love with you!! Ever since your first post.. not even then... when Radiant Rebecca wrote something about you.. I just thought... I love this guy... and now after this post it is sooo true... I love you!!!  I also love loving you!!!

:-) :kiss::kiss:

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Lately, I've been reminding myself over and over that it's about my Energy VIBE first and foremost - and that all else follows, including thoughts.  The most important thing is not something I can define or manipulate through my physical senses.  After all, they are designed for me to experience the physical!! ::devil  And the physical is the reflection of that vibrating Energy.

So, John, this is a really UPLIFTING thread ::hugging  ...With your way of viscerally connecting to your Source  ...With your description of how you approach people, by remembering the Energy they really are.    ----  It is helping to inspire me even more. 

::TU::TU::TU

Your approach is a great way of remembering that approach is all-important! ::devil 

It's all about the direction in which we flow - and thoughts follow in that direction. 

So, if I am feeling doubtful, then that's my direction and my thoughts will follow, unless I pivot.  Which is why I LOVE your way of establishing your starting point viscerally rather than relying on things physical or mental (which we attract anyway, i.e. LoA). 

It feels to me that you are talking about our REAL point of personal power.

I have been wanting to move from the cycle of trying to use what I attract to change what I attract (!) onto to a more empowering and simple starting point.  

...And your whole story is so good to read!

Victoria  ::stardust

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:kiss::kiss::kiss:Wow!!! :kiss::kiss::kiss:


:beautiful:What an amazing story!!!:beautiful:


:allgoodVery inspiring, I loved how it didn't even cross you're mind about him being a partner, it 'just happened'!:allgood


::LOLMy Abe hubby just got vibrationally nearer thanks to this!!!::LOL


Nick ::LOL:kiss:::LOL Xxx

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AppreciateNow wrote: I am in love. ::hearts

I am so in alignment with my one true love, my inner being, that my entire body seems bursting with joy and laughter. I am sharing this love & joy with the sweetest man I've ever met. This story is about our coming together and how I unexpectedly experienced unconditional love for myself.


Joyous John,  I don't know how I missed this post (well, actually I do, I've been busy with my own new love ... guess it is a common thread for those of us on the awesome Caribbean cruise in March 2010!)

I am so delightfully happy for you.

You are such a wonderful allower.  I loved dancing with you in the middle of the ocean but I loved even more the night we talked until we were both about to fall asleep.  You are so free and inspiring.  I am so glad to know you.  I am so glad you will be on the Alaska cruise and look forward to seeing you again.  Will Mark be there?  David will be with me. 

richardfranklinmorse wrote:
How fun and free, John!
Tracy and I are doing lists of each others' positive aspects every day and the list keeps getting longer...


Delighted to read this Richard.

richardfranklinmorse wrote:
Some time ago I was disappointed when my sweetheart didn't want to spend the night with me on a certain night. I was really upset, and asked my inner being about it.
I realized, if she had said yes to me I'd be in heaven, but I'm upset because she said no. However, she's the same person whether she says yes or no, and if I love her, I love HER, not her behavior or whether what she does pleases me at a given moment.
::hearts

How well I remember that night.  The last night of the cruise and you and Tracy headed off and I allowed my hopes of hearing you sing again (as I had on the Alaskan cruise) to drift off as I let go of the oars and accepted that I would have to wait until "next time".  My surprise when you reappeared a little while later, guitar in hand and proceeded to give a few of us a delightful concert.  I am so glad you have found peace with that night.

abraham-nicks wrote:


::LOLMy Abe hubby just got vibrationally nearer thanks to this!!!::LOL




Nick ::LOL:kiss:::LOL Xxx


Nick, so nice to see you in this thread.  My first meeting with John was because someone had confused the two of you and was complimenting John on your youtube site.  Since I had the pleasure of knowing you from the Mexican cruise I figured out quickly that the man thought John was you and ended the confusion.


I just Love, Love, Love aniheartaniheartaniheart::rainbowaniheartaniheartaniheart::wideseeing so many of my friends allow so much love and beauty and well-being into their lives. 


See you all soon.


Love, Jeanine

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Hi(gh) All!

Sorry I have not been on the forum for over 3 months!
So much has taken place in that time,::woohoo including being joyfully homeless, loving the Alaskan cruise in July and really enjoying my stay with Mark in San Diego now.

We have gone through a period of re-adjustment (we'd both been living alone for 8 years) when I first arrived in San Diego in early May. For a few weeks, it seemed so much easier for me to "appreciate the crap out of" Mark before I moved in with him!::LOL I found myself regularly falling back to pointing out what is unwanted! I was alarmed my old patterns in an intimate relationship from 12 years ago resurfaced. I even thought briefly that I didn't realise I am still so fucked up!::devil But thank Vortex I am different now. We moved through these contrasts swiftly and now I feel so much more confident about myself as an appreciator and us as a couple.:allgood

I've just posted my silly story "tips on getting into the hot seat" in case if you feel like some light-hearted fun:

http://www.theabeforum.com/view_topic.php?id=18526&forum_id=9


En-JOY!

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Thank you for the update! Glad to see that you are having so much fun!

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 Posted: Mon Jul 26th, 2010 06:26 am
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John, you have such a way with words.  I have been appreciating the crap out of everybody since getting back from Alaska, including you. I just didn't have the words for it.


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