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Joyous_LadyJ
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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 07:36 am
Wow!!!

Today was the successful culmination of vibrational work.

I have posted previously about being a survivor of childhood abuse for 9 years.  Short story it was daily, my brother and my parents do not know.

So, I have done some work over the years, gotten to a place a few years ago of seeing it as a co-creation and in the last year or so actually seeing the blessings it gave me.

I have been able to say with energy and enthusiasm that I would not change one moment of the past because that would require me to give back some of the expansion I have experienced as a result.

I have been there, in that mindframe, for quite a while.

What I had not yet done was see him; not in six years.

In the past it was always difficult, stressful and an exercise in attempting to maintain an outward appearance of not wanting to run screaming from his presence for as long as I could endure it.

He and his new wife decided to come for a visit (we live on other sides of the country) and my parents moved here to be close to me and my daughters six years ago.

I decided that the enlightened being that I am had to find vibrational harmony with my Inner Being (IB) about him.

I have given it a lot of thought and know that my IB loves him and for me to be in alignment, if he is active in my vibration, I have to match that.  My IB was not coming out of the vortex to match my lower vibration.  I had to raise mine.

Another post I have been contributing to asked me questions about how I would feel toward my current Love interest if he suddenly dumped me.  In that situation it was clear that my IB loved him and his IB loved me and that if I did anything less than that I would be out of alignment.  I resonate completely with that knowledge in that scenario.  It is too important to me to be in the vortex to give it up just because he is too disconnected (in the hypothetical situation) to love me in the little him; I know the larger part of him loves me.

I realized it was the same with my brother.

He and his bride arrived last night and I met them and my parents at a RMEF banquet.  I worked on feeling how my IB feels about him and worked to maintain that vibrational place.  I DID IT!!!!   I literally feel high and I did not have a single drink even though there was an open bar.  It was so fun to feel the way my IB feels.  I could see the confusion in his eyes as I was open, friendly, cheery, welcoming, etc. to him and his bride.  I have never been anything like that around him.  I was ME.  I maintained my place in my vortex.  I feel so POWERFUL!   So successful!   So enlightened!   So capable of being, doing or having anything I desire!  It was not at all about forgiveness because from my IB's perspective there is nothing to forgive.  Who knows, maybe we had a pre-birth agreement.  I have no idea.  I know I have benefitted tremendously from the contrast.  I know that much of what I have become is a result of the strong asking those years elicited from me.  I bless all of it.  I love who I am.  I love the contrast that allowed me to become this wonderful person that I am and that I love. 

I am so appreciative of these teachings.  I am so appreciative of these teachings offering a larger perspective from which EVERYTHING MAKES SENSE and from which there is no "wrong" and no "getting it wrong".  I love the expansion that came during those years and I love all the expansion I have allowed from what I put there then and the expansion I can feel will come as a result of this new vibrational place I achieved tonight. 

WOW!   WOW!   WOW!

I also know that this will be hard for some to "get".  It does not matter because I get it.  I get how my IB sees the world and how to find that place and hold it steady.  I get how joyful it is to be HERE.  I am sure I could open my window tonight and fly. 

Life is perfect and then it gets better.  I love everyone and everything in this moment.  I see the bounce side of all of it.  I love that Abraham says that there is "relief" from joy because it means it can get even better than this pincle which is amazingly high.::fireworks

 

Last edited on Sun Jul 18th, 2010 07:37 am by Joyous_LadyJ

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 08:17 am
Joyous_LadyJ wrote: Wow!!!

My sentiments :exactly:


::woohooIf there is a clearer, more powerful example of success with the teachings and a clear understanding of what Abraham says at their heart, I don't know it.  Perfect!

I could not be happier!! 

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 10:24 am
Wow, that was beautiful. I'm in awe of you, my wonderful co-creator.
I experienced that particular contrast at 12, with a teacher.
Its been a lifetime of contrast,and panic attacks and dysfunctional relationships, low self esteem. I can see because of that early contrast, my life has been one of spiritual growth and development always.
I've struggled with it for so many years, and im ready to let it go.
That teacher was arrested many yrs ago, and died in jail many years ago also.
Im so thankful ive found the Abe teachings. That all of this is making sense to me.
I do find myself wondering what my life might have been, if that hadn't happened, just a normal thought.
ive been dealing with a lot of contrast, since my mom transitioned. And i can feel dad is getting ready to go, and i feel afraid to be all alone. Money and health contrast.
However, the one thing i know with all my heart, that resonates and vibrates within me, is that what i am studying with Abraham,and all of you, is the truth. It resonates on my deepest level.
How one's reality gets created. How to find joy and alignment.
I guess im a work in progress, since one never gets it all done.
Anyway, what a great post you made. You have my love and support. :beautiful:
The whole universe is standing in awe of you and applauding as well. Bravo!:kiss:
I'm so thankful for this forum, and each one of you, i send my love to you as well....:allgood

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 01:45 pm
Joyous, that was beautiful!  Indeed, you are seeing the world, and those in it, through the eyes of Source.  What a powerful lesson in unconditional love and forgiveness.

And how true your statement is about not caring if others don't get it.  This is all about YOU!

Way to go!

::hugging

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 02:00 pm
Fabulous Jeanine!  I get this, totally!  Excellent! I agree with David.

If there is a clearer, more powerful example of success with the teachings and a clear understanding of what Abraham says at their heart, I don't know it.  Perfect!

:exactly:

Good job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk about a huge shift, yowza.

Gwen

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 02:39 pm
Dear Jeanine,

I'm so happy you told this story and how you dealt with it. ::TU

You know, there has been a child abuse case in my family also - it was my grandfather abusing my youngest sister.
He was a widower and had sworn not to marry again - but then he had started to abuse quite a few of his grandaughters - about one of each family of his kids...

Well, my youngest sister is full of hate towards him and also doesn't have any contact with my parents anymore for many years now, because she is somehow convinced, that they knew...but they didn't.. at least not really... Afterwards, when she told us, it showed, that there had been a lot of signs which we all had seen but not known how to interprete them... She will never forgive him... but your way of dealing with it feels much better for me. Because forgiving under this circumstances feels so powerless... But just staying your peaceful, alighned and happy self, whilst detaching yourself from this past experience feels strong and powerful to me. And this also helps me as the sister of a child abuse victim.

Could you help me with one thing: If she ever started to show any interest in Abe... how would she be able to answer the question of how she attracted this experience? (I think she wouldn't easily swallow a pre-birth arrangement...)

Thank you again::TU and love to you

Anne

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 06:20 pm
footprints on my way wrote: Dear Jeanine,

I'm so happy you told this story and how you dealt with it. ::TU

You know, there has been a child abuse case in my family also - it was my grandfather abusing my youngest sister.
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Because forgiving under this circumstances feels so powerless... But just staying your peaceful, aligned and happy self, whilst detaching yourself from this past experience feels strong and powerful to me.

Could you help me with one thing: If she ever started to show any interest in Abe... how would she be able to answer the question of how she attracted this experience? (I think she wouldn't easily swallow a pre-birth arrangement...)

Thank you again::TU and love to you

Anne


Anne,

I would not bring up the subject of the abuse in conjunction with the teachings until she had a good understanding of them.

What Abraham helps us remember is so different than what we have been taught to believe that, until an individual fully understands various elements, such as:
  • We are all eternal
  • We can't get it wrong
  • Everything we experience is something we have created
  • If we are not deliberate creators we can create things by default through miscreation
  • That victims and perps are co-creators, always. 
The last one is usually through having a vibration of victim or powerlessness that was not consciously created which matches the intentions of the one who wants to do the thing that happens.

If she becomes interested, encourage her interest and talk about how they have helped you ... but stay off the subject of the abuse.  I am sure it is active within her because of what you shared above.  If you try to look at it through the lens of deliberate creation too soon I believe it is likely she will abandon her interest in the teachings.

My path was long.  Almost 12 years ago I had a hypnotherapist take me back and that enabled me to forgive my child self for the decisions I made then (primarily the not telling which, from an adult perspective and adult judgment was causing me to blame the child me but when he took me back and I felt how I felt then, and the fears I had, telling seemed the greater fear).  That helped tremendously.

Then, on my path to Abe I was listening to the Infinite Possibilities CDs, work which I believe is based on Abe's teachings, and had been devouring all of Gary Zukav's books and had an ephiphany one a.m. in which I realized I had been a co-creator.  I just had the tip of this but it was enough for me to stop preparing for work (what I was doing when the ephiphany occurred -- brushing my floor length hair is mediatative) and journal for an hour.  I knew it was big but not how big.

Then, I found Abe within a few weeks of that and as I learned I would take the subject out and examine it based on my new knowledge once in a while.

There was a chain of pain that proceeded the hypnotherapist that I won't go into ... I understand it was an outgrowth of the vibrations I had developed from age 9 on and things have gradually been improving since.

This morning I woke in such a wonderful place. 

The lightness in my whole being is wonderful.

Your Sister seems to be in blame (and possibly some of the lower emotions).  Even if she is not interested in the teachings, if  you are close to her and the subject comes up, if  you are aware of where she is on the Emotional Guidance Scale you can, lightly, put out a sentence trying to gently guide her just a little bit up.  If you see any resistance just drop it for then, if she comes willingly, try to stabalize her in the new place, or, if it feels right, inspire her further up the scale.  Do not argue with her as she will just dig in more deeply and be harder to move another time.

I think it was helpful to me that my family (except my children) are unaware and it is only in recent years, as the pain has subsided because of greater understanding of who and what I am and of the benefits I have received from the contrast, that I have spoken of it openly with friends.  I KNEW my thoughts and feelings on the subject did not feel good and, at some level, knew it was off from the way I should feel.  That made me bring it up in my own head and examine it each time it felt like I had learned something that would help.

For a while my anger increased as I realized that much of the pain experienced in my 20's and 30's was reactive behavior to what had happened.  That was when I began taking the bounce and I so love who I am.  I am strong.  I feel safe in the world.  I am an uplifter to my core and can stay steady and uplift even in the face of really really bad circumstances, I can relate to people I would not be able to relate to if this had not happened, I am very independent and able to take care of myself emotionally, physically, and financially yet I have deep and loving relationships.  I believe so much of this ties directly back to the childhood and early adult fall out of that. 

The path of my life has been perfect to create me just as I am.

The best thing you can do for her is to look for the bounce side of what you know of what she has lived and know that the bounce is in her vortex and hold the vision of her as she really is; begin seeing her that way.  Her creation is magnificent.  She is not only that way in her vortex, but in yours.

Love,  Jeanine

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sedonawoman wrote: Wow, that was beautiful. I'm in awe of you, my wonderful co-creator.
I experienced that particular contrast at 12, with a teacher.
Its been a lifetime of contrast,and panic attacks and dysfunctional relationships, low self esteem. I can see because of that early contrast, my life has been one of spiritual growth and development always.
I've struggled with it for so many years, and im ready to let it go.
That teacher was arrested many yrs ago, and died in jail many years ago also.
Im so thankful ive found the Abe teachings. That all of this is making sense to me.
I do find myself wondering what my life might have been, if that hadn't happened, just a normal thought. {For me, I believe with every fibre of my being that I would be less than I am now.
ive been dealing with a lot of contrast, since my mom transitioned. And i can feel dad is getting ready to go, and i feel afraid to be all alone. Money and health contrast.
However, the one thing i know with all my heart, that resonates and vibrates within me, is that what i am studying with Abraham,and all of you, is the truth. It resonates on my deepest level.
How one's reality gets created. How to find joy and alignment.
I guess im a work in progress, since one never gets it all done.{as we all are
Anyway, what a great post you made. You have my love and support. :beautiful:
The whole universe is standing in awe of you and applauding as well. Bravo!:kiss:
I'm so thankful for this forum, and each one of you, i send my love to you as well....:allgood


I don't think I have ever "let it go" so much as I have taken the clay and made it pleasing to me by seeing the bounce and now by recognizing that seeing him as my IB sees him I am aligning to who I am ... that has been the most powerful lesson for me.  I made the decision a while ago to get in the vortex as much as possible and it is so wonderful here.  That decision made it necessary to find a way to be in the vortex on this topic and my IB guided me to the way.  I LOVE MY IB!!!

I don't have to know if there was a pre-birth agreement.  There are things I remember about childhood that could have made me a vibrational match to this on this physical trail.  I don't know which it was and it really does not matter.  Some of those things on this trail could have caused him to be the other side of the equation and made us the match.  It really does not matter.  I know now that I am a deliberate creator.  I know that when I spend lots of time in the vortex great things happen in my life. 

I am feeling such peace, deep deep peace within me.

Life is beautiful. 

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 06:35 pm
David, my sweet love, The Souce Within Me and Gwen,

Thank you for your words of appreciation.  It is my fervent hope that sharing this success will help others find the path.

What I have learned applies in so many situations, it is universal.

This is just an extreme example.

It applies to all relationships from person who cuts you off in traffic to one who hurts you or a loved one.  That is why it feels so powerful to me.  It is wonderful to have healed this aspect of my past and realized the benefits I have personally received from the contrast but it is even more wonderful to realize that I have learned how to align with my IB in any and all circumstances.  That is what is giving me the sense of power that reverberates off the walls.  Talk about a rampage of invincibility. 

Helen Reddy is singing in my mind "I am strong.  I am woman.  I am invincible."

It feels so wonderful.

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 Posted: Sun Jul 18th, 2010 06:50 pm
Jeanine,

I directly related every word of your post to my broken marriage.   

Thank you and yes we are invincable.

Gwen  :kiss:

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Joyous_LadyJ wrote:
It applies to all relationships from person who cuts you off in traffic to one who hurts you or a loved one.  That is why it feels so powerful to me.  It is wonderful to have healed this aspect of my past and realized the benefits I have personally received from the contrast but it is even more wonderful to realize that I have learned how to align with my IB in any and all circumstances.  That is what is giving me the sense of power that reverberates off the walls.  Talk about a rampage of invincibility. 

Helen Reddy is singing in my mind "I am strong.  I am woman.  I am invincible."

It feels so wonderful.


Jeanine,

What an incredibly inspiring story of unconditional love - for YOU!

YOU ARE INVINCIBLE!!

David is right, this is a perfect example of Abraham's teachings!

Thank you for sharing with us with such openness and warmth.

Lisa

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 Posted: Tue Jul 20th, 2010 01:03 am
Dear Jeanine,

I thank you so much for sharing this experience with us, you inspire me with your great strength and your clear feeling of high self-worth. Absolute fantastic!

Reading this made me put a couple of pieces together for myself too. From a very early age men have overstepped my boundaries - first incident was when I was about four or five and I remember many, many more incidents after that. It was a different man each time. I don't see it as sexual abuse as such - I was groped a lot but it never went beyond that. However, it was still very traumatizing and difficult for me to deal with. It really damaged my self-esteem and self-worth and I started wondering what was so awfully wrong with me that this would happen to me again and again. Now for me, this is where it gets hard for me to connect to Abrahams words because the thought of me choosing this, actually attracting these scary and disgusting experiences...that's too difficult for me to even try to fathom so let's not get into that discussion.

HOWEVER, as far as the healing process is concerned I can definitely attribute a lot of it to working with LoA! When I think back on my life up until a year or two ago everything looks so dark and sad. There was so much self-blame, self-hate, punishing myself in various ways. But about a year or two ago things turned around in a major way and I can now say without the shadow of a doubt that I love and appreciate all of myself, that I am a queen and I deserve to be treated like one ;), that I am beautiful and strong, that I don't deserve to be used and abused. And THAT is what Abraham's teachings have done for me.

I have no wish to ever see the men who hurt me ever again (one of them was an uncle, one was a teacher, many of them were strangers) and I don't think I could ever do what you did but we all find different ways of healing don't we?

Jeanine, I am so proud of you for doing what you did. You were set free. You set yourself free. A wonderful testimony to the power of Abraham's teachings!

-Gaia

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 Posted: Tue Jul 20th, 2010 04:52 am

Thank you Fireball and Gaia,

I experienced even more deliciousness today.

Oh, such deliciousness.

I have understood for a while that one vibration "off-kilter" or "off-center" can result in many manifestations that match that vibration.

The interaction with the police officer with ants because she was frustrated on the 2009 Alaskan cruise is a perfect example and perfect interaction with Abraham on this topic.  The officer had several frustrating manifestations going on, ants, a broken toe, an infection in her toe, a rigorous test she should not have to take to "prove" to others her worthiness.

When Abe helped her clean up the source of the frustration the manifestations had to go away.

In the same way, as I cleaned up this area of my vibration I am now seeing that manifestations are going away as a result.   This is MUCH BIGGER than I imagined it would be. 

I wanted to be in alignment on this subject because I want to be in alignment but the manifestations that had come about because of where I was for so long are falling away. 

I had a pretty big ephiphany on this today and then thought, but, of course!

I can barely sleep for thinking of what other wonderful things are on their way to me as the result of this work.  I am so estatic about the change I feel in myself.

Even my fantasy life has expanded exponentially (see another post from tonight for details).

                       Life is perfect and becoming more so by the minute!

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This is an amazing story of coming back

home!

::TU Jeanine.:kiss:

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 I get how joyful it is to be HERE.  I am sure I could open my window tonight and fly. 

Life is perfect and then it gets better.  I love everyone and everything in this moment.  I see the bounce side of all of it. 


 

You go girlfriend!!!  I feel like a soldier in armour (wait, no i dont, cause there is no war, nothing to push against, nothing to FEAR!)

 

I especially liked it when you said Life is perfect and THEN it gets BETTER!!!!  i wanted to stand up and slap someone (joking, im a peacefull lady! ::flowers   ::LOL)

 

There is really no reason to fear ANYTHING!!! I now know that when contrast comes in my experience, that i can look at it with all of the confidance (really flat out ARROGANCE) and say "Oh, its you again, HA! i aint afraid of you, becuase now that i know what i DON'T want, this is what i DO want, so SO LONG you contrast, stinker you!!!!

 

Gotta love it!

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fromknowingtojoy wrote: This is an amazing story of coming back

home!

::TU Jeanine.:kiss:
Yes, it is. I love you guys :)

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 Posted: Thu Jul 22nd, 2010 12:09 am
alisia wrote:

 

There is really no reason to fear ANYTHING!!! I now know that when contrast comes in my experience, that i can look at it with all of the confidance (really flat out ARROGANCE) and say "Oh, its you again, HA! i aint afraid of you, becuase now that i know what i DON'T want, this is what i DO want, so SO LONG you contrast, stinker you!!!!

 

Gotta love it!

I love the power in the above statement.  It resonates strongly within me.  Thank you for putting words that I feel here.

PS:  Love you too, Miss Molly

WE ARE ALL SO AWESOME!!!

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I printed out your story, Jeanine, and have it in one of my Abraham folders marked "major inspiration" and another copy by my bed.

There is really no reason to fear ANYTHING!!! I now know that when contrast comes in my experience, that i can look at it with all of the confidance (really flat out ARROGANCE) and say "Oh, its you again, HA! i aint afraid of you, becuase now that i know what i DON'T want, this is what i DO want, so SO LONG you contrast, stinker you!!!!


This is on my bulletin board in my bathroom to read everyday as I brush my teeth.  It resides with rotating Abraham quotes.  And yours is in the biggest font, alisia! 

I love you two! 

Gwen  :kiss:

 

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 Posted: Thu Jul 22nd, 2010 02:14 am
Thanks Gwen!

My desire to help others is so strong and the feedback I have received here makes me understand more fully why posting it publically felt so good.  IB knew how much my story would help others.  I love my IB.  I love all of you.  Life is so good.

I am still flying high, so high I can touch the sky.

and even more fearless.  A yellow jacket had the audacity to come in the house today when I was going in and out to the grill and I picked up a dustpan and swatted him right back out telling him he had no business in my house.  Enpowering.  Powerful.  In love, loving, mostly in the vortex, things just working out so well.

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 Posted: Thu Jul 22nd, 2010 08:02 am
Your story is an inspiration to all of us. ::TU::TU::TU

Joyous_LadyJ wrote:

"It was not at all about forgiveness because from my IB's perspective there is nothing to forgive. "
 



Lately I was thinking about forgiving and asking for forgiveness. When I cleared my thoughts about it, I decided not to celebrate Yom kippur this year. Some of my Friends and family forgive me and some don't . Well, I don't give a ...

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