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What can you do when you are dead inside?
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roxanna
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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 04:08 pm
when you are totally 'lukewarm' about everything.
From years of depression and denying every dream you
ever had.  From years of putting everyone ahead of yourself,
and now the only emotions that are left are saddness, hopelessness,
frustration,and irritability.
When nothing thrills you, nothing gets you going. When you try
to visualize and the things you fantasize about feel nice, but
that is it, you stop and wham, right back where you are.  Because
they seem so out of reach, no way in hell you can attain any of them.
And you feel so trapped by 'what is', that there is no way out.
Your surrounded by all that you have manifested and what you
have manifested is just more depressing things, people, your job,
lack in every aspect in your life, and you know you have done it.



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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 04:42 pm
Hi roxanna!

It's been said before, but I'll say it again:

If you're feeling that low, if it seems your whole life is just one big mess, then often the best thing you can do - the most releasing and relieving thing - is GETTING PISSED OFF!!! I'm serious. Rant, rave, curse the heavens at the unfairness of it all. If you're really at the bottom of the scale on so many topics, you can't reach for bliss and remain stable in it. But you CAN drag your butt up to rage - and it gets the energy flowing again. I speak from experience. :)

All my love to you,
Christine

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 05:25 pm
As CC said it is all about little steps.  One manageable step  up the EGS at a time.  You also need to have a place to feel safe in which to express yourself during each step.  You really might not want to fully express rage and anger at this Sunday's church meeting.

I found it helpful to fully express myself in the privacy of my bedroom.  I would use a wiffle ball bat to beat the hell out of my bed.  I went through quite a few of those bats.  I would exhaust myself beating that bed, no one else ever knew, no one else or nothing else ever got hurt, but I felt a hellofa lot better.

When you have raised your vibration through expressing where you are, many times people feel let down because they are not at joy and rapture, so let themselves fall back down the EGS for not being good enough.  But the point of felling better, using rage to get yourself out of depression is not to get to joy, but to get to discouragement.  They point of feeling a little better by expressing discouragement is not to get to joy and rapture, but to get to blame.  The point of feeling a little better by expressing blame is not to get to joy and rapture, but to get to worry. And so on.

It is wonderful to be able to acknowledge that you have created the situation that you are in.  If you can fully accept that you are the only one responsible for having created your now, then you can also accept that if you have created this all by yourself then you CAN create any other situation that you desire for yourself all by yourself.  Just work at it one step at a time, where the steps are achievable.

Hang in there, most of us have been there ourselves and understand.  We know you are a being of freedom.  You are so free that you have created bondage for yourself.  You are also so free that you can create the opposite with a little one step at a time effort.

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 Posted: Sat Jul 24th, 2010 06:14 pm
Hi Roxanna,

I've been there too......in fact, that's pretty much where I was when I first became aware of Abraham.

May I suggest that you start with doing things that take care of YOU? Be a mama to yourself. Look at yourself as you would one of your own children. What do you like? Does your hair need to be cut? Could you use a pedicure? Put yourself first. And don't worry about the money. Look at it this way.......if it was someone else's birthday, how much would you spend on a gift? So, if you would spend it for someone else, why not spend it for yourself? Treat yourself to something. What is your favorite flower? Buy a bouquet of them and put them where you can admire them all day. Look at yourself as someone that deserves to be taken care of and considered, and then do that for yourself. There is no better investment than in something that makes you feel better. If you don't want to spend money, print out a photo of something that absolutely tickles you when you look at it..........your favorite flower, a cruise ship, a sandy beach, a palm tree. Even when I felt blah, looking at photos of things that I liked picked me up. Or, do something physical and outside in nature. Walk around the block, find a park to walk in, go to the beach. Lay down on the grass and look at the clouds.

Unfortunately, when we feel this way, there's no easy out, and it's up to us to find our own way to feel better. Fortunately, we have the tools to do it. I just got my nails done this morning, and I tell you what - $35 dollars is worth how good I feel when I look at my hands and I love the way they look. You cannot put a price on well being. A few months ago, I had a real problem with spending money like that on myself, but guess what? I realized that I deserve to treat myself better, and the better I feel, the better my life gets. The more I feel that I deserve nice things, and the more I act as if I deserve it, the more money comes in, and the better I feel.....and so it goes. LOA in action.

Hugs,
::heartsHG

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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 02:30 am
Beautiful sweet adorable Roxanna,

Even when you feel "dead inside". Source adores you. Even when you feel unworthy, you still ARE worthy. Even when we think we really messed up, we have always been on path.......we can't get it wrong.

It's all OK.

You are where you are, and that's OK.

You are OK...in fact, you are adorable, worthy, magnificent.

Why?  How do I know this?

Because you are  Source energy in physical shoes...really....you are Love, really.

The feeling of dead inside is guidance, messages from your Inner Being that the thoughts you are choosing to think simply are not true and that, now, in this moment, you have the power and ability to think different.

You are the thinker.

To accept this, you get your power back.

Appreciation is the quickest way to find alignment with Source.

All is well
You are loved.





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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 02:39 am
Here's a Hall of Fame thread........on appreciation that is so uplifting

http://theabeforum.com/forum2/9749-1.html




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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 02:50 am
 working out always gets me in the vortex...another Hall of fame thread by some very creative abers....

http://www.theabeforum.com/forum8/15051.html

andawe
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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 02:59 am
Gosh, looking thru these Hall of Fame threads reminds me of how much I love abe teachings and this awesome forum and all my aber friends.............this stuff feels so good...and it is abundant , generous and free.

Thoughts do matter!

Thank you Universe!


http://theabeforum.com/forum2/12175.html

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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 03:07 am
Just do what you feel like. Don't worry about feeling better because that will come naturally.

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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 03:14 am
from today's Abe Calendar:

It does not matter how good you feel or how fast you feel it--the only thing that matters is that you consciously discover some relief, no matter how slight it is , and that you understand that your relief has come in response to some deliberate effort you have offered.  For when you are able to consciously find relief, then you have regained creative control of your own experience, and then you are on your way to wherever you wish to go.

::hugging

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 Posted: Sun Jul 25th, 2010 05:57 am
Roxanna,

I'm really glad you started this thread.  What a wonderful way to get more of what you want - simply asking for help!  I agree with those on here who are suggesting just doing what you can to raise your vibration bit by bit.  I'm really looking forward to hearing how things are looking up for you, day by day.  Keep sharing, keep asking and if you still feel discouraged, share that too.  You've come to a place, a wonderful place (this forum) that is filled with love, joy and encouragement; and I can really envision you raising your vibration, little by little, until one day you look back and say, "Wow, I've really been feeling pretty darn good lately!"

Hugs,

Su ::hearts

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 Posted: Sun Nov 14th, 2010 02:03 am
dear roxanna,

thank you so much for you post - more than i can say - and here's how i found it: i searched "feeling dead inside". there were your words, your honesty, you really expressed yourself so well.
well, i searched "feeling dead inside" because i am happily coming up from that place, however  there are a few issues that are still...sitting down there, i guess you could say, and  i am searching to move past them. sometimes i want to rush, and i get frustrated, but i have come so far with these teachings, i remember how much i appreciate where i am - and where i am going! 
all of the responses you received were wonderful - and i especially liked the person who reminded you to see yourself as source sees you.
thank you again,
t

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 Posted: Sun Nov 14th, 2010 02:24 am
what are you guys doing here? 

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 Posted: Tue Nov 23rd, 2010 05:28 pm

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